Let it go ~

I'm never going back, the past is in the past

Let it go ~

Let it go ~

[Let it go - Frozen]

Yes, as the song told us: let it go, people!

We all have our own past, which can be pretty bad and it might be because of someone else's fault. It's our right to be mad and blame ourselves or them who hurt us. But it won't take us anywhere. The pain, anger and maybe shame or regret will always haunt us if we still look back at the past. The past is happened for us to take the lesson. So when we know all about the past that happened to us (why, how and who's fault), we have to accept, forgive, learn and move on.

If you still can't forgive the person that hurt you, then everytime you have a problem, you will always blame them. In that case, you will not be able to find a good solution for your current problem and you will be surrounded by all the negative feelings that will drag you down. And nothing good can come out from negative feelings.

Blaming the past that will not talk back to you, nor giving any solution, is just pathetic. It's like blaming a dead person. Yes, in case you haven't notice, the past is dead.

I know letting go is not easy, but just take a baby step forward at each time. It needs process, but the important thing is you move on, no matter how far it is.

Good Luck! :)